A report by Lloyds Bank found that romance scams rose by 22% in 2023, with an average of £6,937 stolen. Interestingly, while speculators remain interested in cryptocurrency, scammers seem to be turning away from in it. The biggest monetary losses in were via cryptocurrency or bank transfers, but scammers were also rather fond of gift cards too. A single fraudster who was found guilty of romance scamming Americans out of more than $2 billion used Bitcoin to move funds co-conspirators in Nigeria.
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Ever since the dawn of relationships, scammers have found ways to take advantage of people by spinning a convincing tale. But with the rise in online dating, these scams have proliferated, evolving into more sophisticated long cons to win the trust of victims. According to the FTC report, the most popular way scammers reached out to their victims last year was through Instagram (29%) and Facebook (28%).
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Dr. Elisabeth Carter, Associate Professor in School of Law, Social and Behavioural Sciences at the University of Kingston in London, is a criminologist and forensic linguist who has just published a rather interesting book about this. In “The Language of Romance Crimes” (Cambridge University Press, 2024), she explores the totally fascinating interplay of love, money and crime which tells us a lot of about identity, relationships and reputation in the online world. One of her key conclusions is that we cannot look at the victims in narrow terms the disguise the reality of fraud as a type of abuse and “misrepresents victims as having done something for the crime to be visited upon them”
These scams are not all about money, of course. You may have read the somewhat surprising story of the British Member of Parliament who was lured into some inappropriate behaviour (includgn the disclosure of personal details about fellow politicians) via a dating app. He was ensnared via unsolicited instant messages that were sent to a number of politicians (both gay and straight, from a sender posing as ‘Abi’ or ‘Charlie’) that soon escalted into the exchange of initimate images. Willaim Wragg, the unfortunate 36-year-old MP (vice chairman of the influential 1922 committee of Conservative Party backbenchers) said that ‘I got chatting to a guy on an app and we exchanged pictures. We were meant to meet up for drinks, but then didn’t”.
He is hardly the first person to be caught in a honeytrap and cetainly won’t be the last.
(Incidentally, early on my career when I was working at NATO I was given a stern induction lecture by a senior officer who urged me to remain vigiliant when approached by beautiful women in bars in Amsterdam and explained the nature of honeytraps. I was so excited by this possibility that I developed an entirely convincing but fake narrative around my work on secure communications ready to deploy in the bedroom at the right time. Needless to say, this never happened. That is, I was eventually approached by a beautiful woman in a bar in Amsterdam, but it was Conny Dorestjin and she wanted to know about digital identity and the internet of things.)
Not all bad behaviour on dating apps is down to agents of foreign powers intent on subverting our democracy. Most of it, I am sure, is money scamming although some of the behaviour is malicious indeed, such as that the London corporate lawyer who stalked his ex-girlfriend with fictitious online dating profiles and used them to track her movements.
Now you would think that internet dating would be a rather obvious place to introduce a credentials-based
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This means when it comes to the validation of social media accounts in the real world, OnlyFans creators are some of the most trusted verified accounts on the internet.
There is something deeply ironic about the fact that OnlyFans, a platform for risqué fantasy and characters, is the least likely among social networks to have a problem with fake accounts. You can trust that the creators are real people who have been validated in a way that few other platforms offer.
There is something to learn from this.
First, OnlyFans offers an example of how the desire to get paid for content online smooths the way to validating user identities. There are three major reasons other social services don’t validate the people who participate in their networks. First, the friction of going through the validation process for new accounts prevents people from signing up. Second, it is expensive and time-consuming for services to validate identities. Third, requiring proof of real-world identity is quite exclusionary, as many people can’t easily make that proof. The desire to get paid for content provides a level of motivation that overcomes at least the first two of these hurdles.
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